Prioritizing
Prioritize with 2 questions
"Because there will always be
something more to do, we need to consciously choose what we are doing."
-- Helen Ksypka
Why is it such a challenge to
prioritize?
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We have enough to-dos to last for a lifetime.
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We tend to view every to-do as an immediate
"must" do.
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We've become desensitized to what's really
important.
The first thing we need to realize is that we
will never "catch up." There will always be something more to do because
life doesn't stop. So it's all about making wise choices.
And how do we do that? By asking these two
questions before tackling any to-do.
Let's begin with something obvious. Imagine
that you're in your office, and your fax short-circuits, causing the entire
room to go up in flames. It's a no-brainer that your top priority would be
to get out of there immediately, but let's ask our two questions:
Do I need to do this now?
Answer: Yes. The office is an inferno.
If I don't do this now, what are the
consequences?
Answer: I'll be charbroiled.
Since it's easy to recognize that the top
priority in the above case would be to flee from the burning office, it
means that you and everyone else has the ability to prioritize. It's just a
matter of practicing, weeding through what's on our plates, and reassessing
when necessary.
Now let's say you have a list of fifty to-dos,
and you insist that they're all very important. The key is to determine
which is the "most" important of the very important by asking and answering
our two questions.
If you also insist that every single to-do has
consequences if left undone, determine which consequences would be the most
drastic. Those to-dos would be worthy of a higher priority.
A curve ball is inevitable, however. As soon as
we masterfully prioritize our to-dos, "life happens." That's when it becomes
necessary to "shift" priorities.
Let's go back to the example of the office
fire. Say it was nine o'clock in the morning and you were working on a
proposal to present to a prospective client at noon, which could have
resulted in tripling your income. At that point in time, nothing would have
been a higher priority than completing the proposal. But if late in the
morning, the fire broke out, there would have been an immediate "shift" in
priorities.
When "life happens," it will be in varying
degrees, which means varying degrees of "shifts" in priorities. For example,
a plumbing problem may require a "shift" in priorities for that day. A fire,
or the loss of a job or spouse, may require extensive reassessment and a
massive "shift" in daily, as well as long-term, priorities.
Life keeps moving. Life changes. And a steady
stream of to-dos continuously competes for our attention. But, the good news
is, any one of us can learn to determine which to-dos are really worthy of
our time, and we can learn the skill of prioritizing effectively by
remembering to ask two questions:
Copyright (c) 2004 Helen Ksypka
About The Author
Helen Ksypka is the founder of Born Organized (R) and its
divisions: Time Smarts, Communication Clout, and Galloping Goals (sm/tm).
Free tips on how to live an orderly, productive, and fulfilled life can be
found at her web site:
http://www.bornorganized.com
Helen has penned a popular e-book, "Quotes to the Rescue:
Wisdom to Help You Live Life Effectively," which includes traditional topics
as well as current lifestyle categories such as: Prioritization, To-Dos,
Multitasking, Jam-Packed Lives, Junk. For more details, please visit:
http://www.quotestotherescue.com
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