Realistic time
management tips
Want to Manage your time ? Get real!!
You know the drill - the ridiculous deadlines, the relentless barrage of
email, voicemail, phone calls, all those "got a minute" interruptions, the
constant worrying that one of those many balls you're juggling is going to
unexpectedly drop.
When you're on total overload, all you want is relief - preferably the fast
and easy kind. So you try the latest organizing software or gadget. Or maybe
you read another book, take another course on time management or listen to a
tape by the latest time management guru. Things might go pretty well for a
couple of days. But before long you're right back where you were - snowed
under with no realistic way to dig out.
WHERE THE RUBBER MEETS THE SKY
Lots of things work - in theory. Take the "handle each piece of paper only
once" technique. The idea is basically a good one. But practically speaking,
how many people are really able to do it on any consistent basis?
Suggestions to have your secretary screen your calls or to close your office
door to discourage interruptions leave secretary-less cubicle dwellers
everywhere scrambling to add "get secretary" and " get door" to their To-Do
lists!
Then there is the traditional three-step system
to planning and managing your day:
Step 1: Take out your calendar and make a list
of want you want to accomplish.
Step 2: Use the ABC designation to prioritize
each activity.
Step 3: Start with your most high priority
tasks.
Complete all of these before moving on to your
lower priority tasks. Cross-off completed tasks as you go until you've
accomplished everything on your list. Tidy up your desk and leave your
office with that warm, satisfying feeling of knowing you have successfully
managed your time.
That's how it works for you, right? Get real!
WHERE THE RUBBER MEETS THE ROAD
Let's review the traditional "calendarizing" approach. Is it a good idea to
plan your day? Yes. Should you write things down? Absolutely. Is
prioritizing essential? Clearly. Ideally then, the three-step process should
work. And, in simpler times, it no doubt did. In today's jam-packed world
however, even with the clearest of values, this formulaic approach is in
many ways more idealistic than realistic.
A more realistic approach is one that takes
into account the reality that you have to juggle a lot more than a To-Do
list. In fact, there are three things that must be first organized and then
managed:
1. Commitments (to yourself, to others, and
others to you),
2. Communication
3. Information.
Staying on top of commitments, communication
and information is no easy task either. That's where the realistic part
comes in.
If you want to effectively manage your time you
need to get real. Workable solutions are those that are firmly grounded in
reality. Whose reality? Preferably yours. Take a look at these 5 Work/Life
Reality Checks. If you find that you share a similar view of what it's
really like to try to manage a too full work and personal life, take
advantage of some real tips for real people.
REALITY CHECK 1: Most interruptions are in
your mind.
It's not easy getting things done when you're contantly being interrupted.
But, guess who interrupts you more than anyone else? If you came up with
anyone other than YOURSELF, it's time for a reality check! In fact, the
average person talks to him/herself up to 50,000 times a day!
That's because your subconscious tries to act
like the RAM, or Random Access Memory, on a computer - the place where
current work is being handled. But unlike a computer, your brain doesn't
know it should store all the other "incompletes" - plan meeting agenda,
write report, buy cat food - elsewhere until those reminders are needed.
That's why, while you're in the middle of one thing, like talking on the
phone - your subconscious breaks in to remind you to pick up your dry
cleaning. All these self-interruptions can make you feel overwhelmed and
scattered. And, that's not all. These mental distractions make it hard to
stay focused on the task at hand.
Real Tip:
To start, do what you'd do with a too full computer - but instead of
downloading files off your hard drive, "download" all those To-Do items off
your mind into one big list. From here you can begin organizing your
commitments into the appropriate "files."
Use your calendar for date-specific commitments
only. For everything else, create lists based on logical categories. For
example, you'll want a list called Current Goals and Projects to help you
stay focused on your most high-impact activities such as create new training
program, plan office relocation, or research MBA programs.
REALITY CHECK 2: If you want the right
picture, you need the right lens.
The download exercise gives you perspective on all of the things you need or
want to do. Now it's time to get perspective on those commitments that have
defined due dates. When it comes to getting perspective on time-specific
commitments, it is useful to think of a camera. If you want to get a broader
picture, you'd use a wide-angle lens.
To see more detail, you'd want to zoom in for a
close-up view.
Sometimes you need to plan for the next few
days or weeks. Other times you need to look out a few months by doing some
mid-range planning. Still other times you need to look further down the road
by doing some long-range planning. Depending on what type of planning you're
doing, you need to adjust your view of time accordingly.
To differentiate the forest from the trees is
to clearly separate the big picture from the details. If your organizer -
whether paper or electronic - consists of 365 daily pages, you're trying to
see the forest by looking at 365 "trees." Without a useful way of seeing a
broader picture of time, you can end up reacting day-to-day. Getting that
wider view helps you see what's coming. That way you can take a more planned
and proactive approach which will save you a lot of time, not to mention
headaches.
Real Tip:
If you need to do short, mid and long-range planning, don't rely on a daily
calendar alone. Instead, make sure you have the right view for the job. A
daily or weekly calendar is great for short-term planning. For mid-range
planning, widen the lens with a monthly view and use a yearly view to get a
really big picture of time.
REALITY CHECK 3: Most things do not need to
be done today.
Once you've identified your next actions, the traditional approach to time
management would have you write these on your daily calendar. At first
glance this sounds logical, especially when you consider Benjamin Franklin's
advice to, "Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today."
Yet, let's put Franklin's wise words into their
real life context. Franklin may have been a busy man, but unlike you, he did
not have to contend with voicemail, email, faxes, or pagers. He and the
other Founding Fathers had the luxury of spending four months framing the
Declaration of Independence. When was the last time you had four months to
concentrate on a single project? Life was a whole lot simpler in the 18th
century. Things were even simpler 10 years ago! At the time, Franklin's idea
of never putting things off was a simple solution to what was a simple
challenge.
But with so much more to do today, it's not
always possible - or wise - to follow Franklin's advice. Let's say that on
Monday, Sam asks you to give him a call sometime this week. You turn to
Tuesday's calendar page and write, "call Sam." Tuesday ends and you didn't
have a chance to call Sam. So you roll the reminder to the Wednesday page.
The next day, the same thing happens and on through the week. Sound like
your reality?
In the real world, most things do not need to
be done on a specific day. That phone call to Sam may be "due" by Friday but
you have a number of days in which to "do" it. This distinction is important
because most systems - whether paper or electronic - are calendar-driven.
Therefore, they recommend each day begin with a review of yesterday's
calendar page to see what did not get done and then transfer these items to
today's calendar page. What this system forces you to do, is to start your
day with a reminder of how much you failed to accomplish.
Real Tip:
Abandon the needless, frustrating and de-motivating ritual of rolling over
unfinished tasks by differentiating between those activities you have to do
on a specific date from those that are due by a date. If Sam had asked you
to call him on Thursday morning, put it on your calendar. Otherwise dedicate
a separate page for your next actions list and add a note to call Sam with a
due date of Friday. You can call Sam any day before then as your time or
mood allows. That way you'll have a system that allows you to begin your day
focusing not on what you failed to do, but on what you have accomplished.
Non-date specific commitments aren't the only
thing you'll want to keep off your calendar pages. Instead of writing
messages from voicemail on your calendar, dedicate a section of your
organizer for this information. That way you won't have to flip through
months of old calendar pages in search of a name or number.
REALITY CHECK 4: Count on others but trust
yourself.
The successful completion of your commitments often depends on others
following through on their commitments to you. In fact, you probably rely on
other people dozens of times a day - to return your phone calls, respond to
your email messages, give you the go-ahead, provide needed information,
handle what they said they would, etc.
Once you make a request, or are promised
something, you've just passed that person the proverbial ball. Most of time
they handle the play without a hitch. But do others - people and businesses
- sometimes drop the ball?
Even if a person reports to you, you can't make
them deliver on their commitments. You can't force someone to return your
call or email or forward information requested. You can't make a business
send you that rebate or refund check or a friend return a borrowed item.
What you can do though, is follow-up.
Real Tip:
Be sure your organizing system includes an early warning system in the form
of a list of pending items. Call it your Waiting For page. For example if
you're expecting the travel agent to mail your ticket no later than the
10th, add this to your page. That's your prompt to follow up before someone
drops the ball.
REALITY CHECK 5: There will always be more
to do than time to do it.
A real tip for managing mental interruptions is to do a mental download of
all the things you need or want to do in every aspect of your life. Combine
this with the reality that "most things do not need to be done today," and
you'll see that not only do you have a pretty long list, but many of the
things on your list will have to wait weeks, months, or even years. Does
that mean you should just forget about them?
Even if you wanted to forget some of the less
fun tasks like painting the house or reorganizing your files, realistically
speaking, your mind won't let you. The task will keep popping up on your
mental screen until you either decide not do it or capture it somewhere
other than on your mental hard drive!
Real Tip:
Reduce mental clutter and free yourself to focus on the present by capturing
and categorizing future activities into one or more Future lists. Committing
your future dreams to writing has the added benefit of providing you with
the motivation you need to ultimately act on them.
No time management or Focus Management
technique or practice will work if it flies in the face of your real life
challenges. When creating an effective time management system, be sure to
take reality into account. If your current system is one that sounds good in
theory but doesn't work very well in practice, maybe it's time for a reality
check!
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