Vampire Meetings and How to slay them
Meetings can be like mythical
vampires – sucking the life out of intelligent and creative people. And
sucking the funds out of businesses. Unfortunately, there are too many of
these meetings in business today.
A UCLA study said the “typical”
meeting includes nine people. If you have nine people in a meeting room for
one hour, you have consumed one entire workday – plus some.
What about the dollars associated
with this? Say the average salary of meeting attendees is $40,000. Their
hourly pay is about $20.00. Nine people for one hour costs $180.00. Not bad,
right?
But consider the implications. People don’t
spend just one hour a year in meetings. In a 3-M online survey in 1998,
people reported spending between one and 1.5 days per week in meetings. They
also said 25% to 50% of those meetings was wasted. Being conservative, let’s
think 25% of one day’s worth of meetings…that’s two hours. Per week. Times
nine people. 18 hours a week. Times $20.00 an hour. 18 times 20 times 48
weeks = $17,280.00.
This is a conservative number. For only nine
people. How many people are in your company? And how much time do they spend
in meetings each week? These figures do not include the preparation and
debriefing time, their benefits, meeting and travel expense or, worst of
all, opportunity cost. Really, what could these people have been doing for
your business if they weren’t tied up in ineffective meetings week after
week?
So, what can we do about these vampire
meetings?
Start by looking at your regularly scheduled
meetings. What is the objective? Are they really necessary? Can most of the
agenda be covered via paper or email? Do you need all the people there for
every meeting? Or can some attend only occasionally?
Once you know this meeting must be held with
these (fewer, I hope) people, then set a meeting objective for each time.
And share it with people before and at the start of the meeting. Post it on
a flipchart if possible. Typical meeting objectives include: Generate ideas
to overcome our funding problem, Find innovative ways to cut the budget
without cutting service, Gain understanding of our new retirement plan, Get
updates on three key projects, etc. The advantage of having a clear
objective for your time together is that people will police themselves and
stay on-topic. And if they don’t, you can point to the objective and say
something like, “We have 30 minutes left and still have to achieve this goal
for this meeting.” Knowing and sharing the objective is a wonderful way to
manage the group’s energy and focus.
Another way to keep your meetings productive
and efficient is to manage the people dynamics. One of the most common
meeting problems is when one person talks and talks and others never get to
say a word. If possible, have a meeting facilitator whose job is, among
other things, to make sure everyone gets appropriate airtime. When you do
not have the luxury of a content-neutral facilitator, then the chairperson
must assume responsibility for managing the group. It’s easier than it may
seem. In this situation of one dominant personality, the chairperson can
enforce brevity for all. Explain that you want everyone to give his or her
thoughts in a sentence first and then elaborate on it. So, when that
individual starts his/her comments with an unfocused beginning (“20 years
ago, I worked at a company and we had something similar happen, except there
were some differences like there was this woman named Ann….”), you have the
permission to step in and say, “Could you give us your point in a sentence
first, Paul, and then some background?” Being even-handed in implementing
this approach is very important, obviously.
Another technique to help in this situation is
to paraphrase the speaker’s point. Interrupt when he or she takes a breath
and say, “So you’re saying that…” and when they agree, you turn to the rest
of the group and ask if anyone has anything to add or a different
perspective. Thus you use the power of paraphrasing to help the speaker be
concise while taking back the control of the group. You might even just jump
in when the speaker takes a breath and say, “Good point, Paul. Does anyone
else have a different perspective?” and turn your eyes to others.
How you close a meeting is very important. Much
like mythical vampires who fade away at sunrise, many meetings tend to
sputter to a close when the allotted time runs out. We’ve all been in
meetings where the chairperson is trying to set up another meeting while
attendees bolt for the exits.
For a meeting that energizes attendees, do this
instead. Five minutes before the ending time, call a halt to discussion and
revisit each of the agenda items and state what was decided. Then identify
next steps with as many specifics as possible. “Sandy, you said you would
investigate prices for printing a brochure, right? When can you have this
done?” Also set the time and place for the next meeting and tell
participants what they can expect from you before then (notes from this
meeting, an agenda for the next one, an interim email, etc.).
By pointing out what has been accomplished in
the meeting, identifying next steps, and setting the next meeting (not to
mention ending on time!), you will create a sense of momentum and people
will feel the time they spent in the meeting was productive.
Like a wooden stake, these tips will slay pale,
unproductive vampire meetings and replace them with lively, effective ones.
Attendees might actually look forward to your future meetings! And you will,
too.
Peg Kelley, MBA, has been a professional meeting
facilitator for 25 years & is co-author of the booklet “39 Secrets for
Effective and Enjoyable Meetings” available for $6.00 at her Facilitation
Plus website at
www.meetingswithmuscle.com. She publishes a free e-newsletter on Meeting
Management Tips. Send your email address to her at
Kelley@facplus.com if you want to
receive it.
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